It is strange that so small a thing can make such a difference to your life as I was to find that my marriage was not complete until I got my first vibrator. Female toys can make a huge improvement to your sex life, and once I discovered the orgasm, I realized just how important this was.
Sex and marriage work hand in hand and gone are the days when women are expected to lie flat on their backs and not take any pleasure in this side of the marriage. This sort of thing can actually make or break a relationship.
It is not only about the sex act, it is about being able to achieve a state of total intimacy and this takes a good deal of trust.
I came across female toys completely by accident when a work colleague at another company sent me and invitation by email to an adult party plan party she was planning. Not having any idea what this was about, I agreed to attend.
When I arrived there was such a buzz in the room, the excitement was palpable and I asked Bev, what is this all about? When she told me I nearly dropped dead with fright, but she is a nice Christian girls so I was reassured. She told me that this would be great fun and I would learn a lot.
She was right.
When the adult party play lady arrived, we crowded around her – fascinated. Her talk was amusing, down to earth, original and educational. I learned from her that the addition of female toys to her marriage had saved it from dying a lingering death and this was good news.
My husband and I had spoken about it, but both being a bit ignorant about the importance of mutual fulfillment, had not really allowed it to bug us or pursue it any further.
The bullet vibrator was her suggestion, she said it wouldn’t be intimidating to either my husband or my self and I purchased a waterproof model with two bullets, a French maids outfit for fun and some cherry flavored motion lotion.
I couldn’t wait for my goodies to arrive and I was unsure as to whether I should tell my husband or make it a surprise. I felt it best to talk to him about it, and he was awaiting the arrival of OUR package just as anxiously. Let’s just say it all worked out for the greater good, the rest is history and now I have a real marriage thanks to Adult Party Plan.