It is strange that so small a thing can make such a difference to your life as I was to find that my marriage was not complete until I got my first vibrator. Female toys can make a huge improvement to your sex life, and once I discovered the orgasm, I realized just how important this was.
Modern marriages are not about wifely duties and not enjoying sexual contact. These are marriages of the mind, body and soul. Complete participation in a marriage partnership means that a couple must be able to fulfill each other completely and part of the deal is sex. We are no longer living in the dark ages as far as sexuality is concerned.
It is not only about the sex act, it is about being able to achieve a state of total intimacy and this takes a good deal of trust.
I came across female toys completely by accident when a work colleague at another company sent me and invitation by email to an adult party plan party she was planning. Not having any idea what this was about, I agreed to attend.
When I arrived there was such a buzz in the room, the excitement was palpable and I asked Bev, what is this all about? When she told me I nearly dropped dead with fright, but she is a nice Christian girls so I was reassured. She told me that this would be great fun and I would learn a lot.
It was good fun, the girls were already having a good time.
When the lady arrived and started unpacking all her goods, I have to admit I was fascinated. She gave a good and amusing talk and actually was very good at her job, explaining how her experience with female toys and potions saved her marriage. It was then I became concerned that my orgasm was definitely missing from my marriage.
My situation was different, but I could see that a couple of years down the line, I could be in the same boat. My husband and I had discussed the fact that sex did not really turn me on, so to speak, but although it didn’t bug me now, it might later.
The bullet vibrator was her suggestion, she said it wouldn’t be intimidating to either my husband or my self and I purchased a waterproof model with two bullets, a French maids outfit for fun and some cherry flavored motion lotion.
When I told my hubby about everything I had seen and heard at the Adult Party Plan party, as well as what I had ordered, he was as excited as me for the package to arrive. It did and we had a lot of fun experimenting with my new female toys. I am not going to go into detail, but I now have quite a collection of role play outfits, female toys and other stuff, and we now realize that sex is the way grown ups play.
