The art of introducing sex toys into your relationship should be done with loving care and at a pace that your partner feels comfortable with as well.
The same procedures must be followed when introducing sex toys into a relationship.
Couples in a new relationship have the advantage of introducing sex toys as part of their love making. New partners are more open to suggestions as they are still getting familiar with you. Couples in a long term relationship may have other problems as the sex toys may be a very new idea to both of you.
Should you be the partner interested in introducing sex toys into your relationship, you must keep in mind that a surprise introduction may give your partner quite a fright. Rather be patient and very attentive about how you breach the subject in bed. Keep the idea of toys light hearted and fun.
At your next sexual encounter, you can move the attention to her vaginal area by using the same pen or maybe introduce a second familiar object. Have fun with this object and never let your partner feel uncomfortable.
Slowly introduce more adventurous items as part of your next love making session, making sure your partner enjoys every minute. Move down to her pubic area this time and stimulate her clitoris with this object. Keep it sensual and relaxed.
You will soon see if your partner is ready for more adventurous sex toys, so this is the perfect time to invite her for a shopping outing to an adult shop. Together you may find something there that excites both of you. Do not buy the whole shop at once, but rather make these shopping experiences part of foreplay by creating expectations in both of you.
Loving couples will compromise making it possible for you to use the toys stimulating yourself during sex. In many cases the other partner sees the enjoyment side of this aspects of sex and may try it herself.
The final resort will be to use the sex toys in your private moments, but do share this information with your partner as they may feel left out.
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