Seduction is a slow and attentive process where both partners entice one another in the game of seeking pleasure. Great lovers know when to move on and when to hold back during this love play.
Pay attention to the signals from you partner as they will show you when to move faster with the process or maybe they need a slower approach to give them time to get used to the idea.
Couples that are in a new relationship may discuss sex toys openly and frankly as they are still learning what the partners enjoy and want to experiment with. In other cases the couple may be together for years and never used any toys during lovemaking, causing a bit of uncertainty with both on the subject.
Should you be the partner interested in introducing sex toys into your relationship, you must keep in mind that a surprise introduction may give your partner quite a fright. Rather be patient and very attentive about how you breach the subject in bed. Keep the idea of toys light hearted and fun.
The idea of sex toys may be overwhelming, so start off by using an innocent ball point pen. Draw and write upon your partner focusing on her sensitive areas. Kiss and lick the writing so that she too can enjoy this new sensation. By doing this you make the idea of sex toys more acceptable.
After a while you will be able to sense if your partner is open for more unfamiliar sex toys. This is a good time to introduce them to the world of adult shops where you can discover what may work for you both. Keep this shopping adventurous and fun by making it part of the seduction process. On your first visit, buy a single item that is simple to use.
Gauge the situation well and as soon as your partner give you the go ahead, take her along to you local adult shop. Include this visit in your fore play and build up excitement during your visit. Choose a simplistic toy that you both will enjoy experimenting with. Keep the visit relaxed and playful for the best possible outcome.
In some relationships one of the partners can not get into the sex toys and may cause the other partner to feel uncomfortable. Have a good talk about the need for toys at this stage and maybe reach an agreement where one of you will use the toys on themselves only. Be kind and gentle and respect the whishes of your partner.
The final resort will be to use the sex toys in your private moments, but do share this information with your partner as they may feel left out.
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