It was only when I bought my first vibrator that I realize what had been missing in my marriage. This small thing helped make my marriage complete – it is amazing what an orgasm or two can do, and how much female toys help.
Sex and marriage work hand in hand and gone are the days when women are expected to lie flat on their backs and not take any pleasure in this side of the marriage. This sort of thing can actually make or break a relationship.
Complete intimacy means that sex and trust also play a role. If you can trust a man enough to have good sex with him, then you can trust him for anything.
I came across female toys completely by accident when a work colleague at another company sent me and invitation by email to an adult party plan party she was planning. Not having any idea what this was about, I agreed to attend.
When I arrived there was such a buzz in the room, the excitement was palpable and I asked Bev, what is this all about? When she told me I nearly dropped dead with fright, but she is a nice Christian girls so I was reassured. She told me that this would be great fun and I would learn a lot.
It was good fun, the girls were already having a good time.
When the lady arrived and started unpacking all her goods, I have to admit I was fascinated. She gave a good and amusing talk and actually was very good at her job, explaining how her experience with female toys and potions saved her marriage. It was then I became concerned that my orgasm was definitely missing from my marriage.
My situation was different, but I could see that a couple of years down the line, I could be in the same boat. My husband and I had discussed the fact that sex did not really turn me on, so to speak, but although it didn’t bug me now, it might later.
On her suggestion I bought a small waterproof double bullet vibrator unit, a role play outfit (the French maid) and motion lotion. She told me that bullet vibrators are always the best female toys to get if it is your first attempt, they are not so intimidating.
I couldn’t wait for my goodies to arrive and I was unsure as to whether I should tell my husband or make it a surprise. I felt it best to talk to him about it, and he was awaiting the arrival of OUR package just as anxiously. Let’s just say it all worked out for the greater good, the rest is history and now I have a real marriage thanks to Adult Party Plan.