A lot of my friends spoke to me about them, and even through my excitement about them, I was a bit apprehensive. Many of my friends have used them as well, but I guess I didn’t have the courage to get initiated with them. Yes, I am talking about vibrators here.
Things became a bit difficult when my boyfriend of seven years got a posting in the Middle East. It was a teary goodbye and all but the real pangs started in the nights that followed when I really began to miss him.
It became worse with each passing day. We were so used to each other that this separation proved to be too much. The depression spilled out on my work life and I was not doing things the way I was expected to do.
I was only this close to getting fired from my third job when one of my friends suggested that I should see a doctor about my problem.
I didn’t know how a doctor would rescue me from this problem but I thought I would give it a try. I got an appointment with the doctor and, as I later found out, meeting her really set my life in the right direction.
This doctor was a lady doctor and she really understood my problem well. She told me that it was too much sex and it had suddenly stopped and that can create problems. She said that I was in a vulnerable situation and could do something nasty. Eventually, she made a highly unorthodox suggestion–she told me to get myself a vibrator!
I was shocked initially, but the doctor explained that vibrators and other adult toys are prescribed by doctors frequently. They keep people off from unhealthy sexual habits and also save them from going through mental turmoil as was happening with me. She even recommended an online store from where I could get the device discreetly.
It felt strange at first, but now after 4 weeks of using the vibrator, I actually feel nice. My boyfriend is still very much my first love, but my vibrator has made my lonely nights easier. I am pulling myself through and, as the doctor said, maybe I am keeping myself safer also so why not see your doctor and see what he things of sex toys.